It’s the valentine’s day. It’s the only day of the year, which is for the couples in love. It is the day of Saint Valentine. For a majority of people, specially for singles, it could have been the most romantic day of the year. But unfortunately, due to some unfavorable astral circumstances, they are lonely, or have turned lonely, a few days or months back. Some people consider ending their life; I too had tried so. But now, I regret that if I would have gone, I wouldn’t have been as better as I am today. I’d like to thank my ex for the ‘ex’periences, she gave me. By the way, it was my father, who gave me the second life.
If you witnessed heartbreak recently, and are feeling pitiably single and lonesome, I’ll be suggesting you a few ways that will help you overcome the pain of separation and heartbreak.
Get involved Creative Tasks
Though, it might feel awkward to read, but it will help you divert your mind from your Ex. Things like drawing, poetry, acting, reading, teaching, cooking, gardening, etc. will help you best at recovering from heart calamity. These tasks (or hobbies) will keep you engaged, and will never let you think of past memories.
Learn From Letdowns
It is the most important thing. Take a lesson from what didn’t work in your past relationship, and make a promise to yourself that you will not be following these things in your future. Cry as much as you want, but swear to your God that you wouldn’t cry for him/her after this. Learn from the mistakes and gaffes that happened in your relationship.
What you miss the most is not the person but the happy moment, which you lived with him/her. To redirect your mind to some other world, you should watch movies. Comedy genre is always advisable for this. However, you can watch any of your favorite genres, but avoid watching romantic movies; it might make you think of your relationship, again.
Go For A Vacation With Your Friends
Friends are the most amazing people, who will give you many a reasons to smile and laugh. According to a survey, when you fall in love, you lose three to four friends. Now, after you have broken up, you should call all those friends, who you left behind. Call them up and go for at least a weeklong holiday with them. You will spend a really great time with them on your trip. This trip will strengthen your friendship and your heart, as well.
I can understand, it is a period, when you don’t feel like doing anything. But to keep things going on, you too need to move on, step further. Nothing is stable and constant – days, weeks, months, weather, years, and life – everything changes, because change is the of nature. And believe me, once you’ve moved forward, you’ll love your new life. And people around you will like your new energetic avatar.